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I’ve slept with girls who have felt ashamed of themselves for sleeping with me, I’ve slept with girls who thought they could get a relationship out of me and failed, and I’ve slept with girls who started out thinking I was a great guy and ended up wanting me out of their life.As with any relationship, it’s bound to leave you emotionally confused; the art is in picking yourself up and not letting that confusion break you.
Boyfriends and girlfriends have come and gone, but my friends with benefits have stood the test of time. That’s longer than I predict my first marriage will last.When guys think of how to get a fuck buddy, they often think they should just go on a date with a girl, fuck her brains out and that’ll do the trick.Sure, it might, but I think it’s an unimaginative way of looking at it. This means that when you have sex, make sure there’s some kind of story attached to it – you both had sex in an expensive hotel after rampaging through the city, or you had sex on the beach or you had sex in a club toilet or you picked her up on at a house party, bailed and had sex in a park. The point was that it was something out of the ordinary. Back in my early 20’s, I used to spend so much time worrying about whether or not I’d get laid that I would play it extremely safe.When I was inexperienced with girls, I used to be hugely judgemental about their sexuality, and fearful within conversations.
Stemming from my neediness, I thought any girl sleeping with another man somehow spoke to my self-worth, and that if I said the wrong thing in conversation then I would lose the girl. I have friends who often profess to be non-judgemental, but as soon as a girl starts talking about her sexuality, they seize up, become defensive, and often go on the attack, questioning her about her motivations.
And for the guys who usually can’t get them at all, they’re left doubly confused as to what they’re doing wrong.